How to Text a Girl Without It Being Awkward

Now that you have a girl's phone number, you might want to play things safe by texting her instead of calling right away. Text-messaging is an acceptable way to communicate simple messages and random, flirty thoughts without having the feeling of vulnerability that voice-on-voice conversations give you. There are, however, some things to keep in mind when it comes to texting a girl so that your text messages are not perceived as awkward. 

Instructions:

1. Choose your timing wisely. You do not want to text a girl five minutes after she gives you her number, or this will come across as overly eager. Unless the two of you established the need to text the same day regarding a homework assignment or work project you are doing together, wait at least one day before texting her to avoid any awkwardness.

2. Text her after work hours. Texting a girl in the middle of the day -- when you are supposed to be working or attending class -- makes it obvious that you are thinking about her. If you text her in the morning before work or school, this is even more awkward. The best option is to send a friendly text in the early evening. Additionally, avoid texting her late at night, because you don't yet know what her evening routine is or how early she goes to bed.

3. Have a cheery tone in your text message. Say something funny to make her laugh and smile. Keep it light, simple and friendly. Avoid getting overly personal in your text. Do not text her to confess that you had a dream about her, or that you miss her after not seeing her for 24 hours, as this may make her uncomfortable.

4. Do not become emoticon-happy. Too many smiley faces, frowns and other facial expressions can make it seem like you are trying hard to get her attention.

5. Avoid bombarding her with text messages. If you send a text, wait for her reply. If she doesn't respond, do not text her again asking for a follow-up, or wondering what happened to her. This looks needy and can become uncomfortable real quick.

6. Know when it is appropriate to pick up the phone and call her. If you made plans to get together but need to cancel them, you should not do so in a text message. Canceling plans is best done in a live conversation; it's a more thoughtful way of communicating. Also, if you have a lot of information to give her, do not put everything into a text message. Save the sharing for when you see her in person.

 

 

How to Stop Feeling Awkward Around Women - Use These Tricks Boost Your Confidence to the Next Level

Most men know that confidence is needed to attract women, but few can actually do it.
I admit, getting rejected can bust your morale, but only if you let t get to you. Being successful with women doesn't mean not feeling bad when you get rejected, but it helps if you can bounce back easily from a bad situation to your old, confident self. Here are some more confidence tips you can use to improve your game.

 

Stop Being Awkward in the Dating Scene - Three Tips 

1. "Plentiful Mindset"

To become super confident around women, you must always remember that there are more women in the world than men. This means you don't have to panic if the girl you want to date snubs you. Move away and approach as many women as you can. If this is the way you operate, girls will see you as a social animal who can charm women anywhere. This increases your social value and will lead to more dates in the future.

2. "Visualize"

Imagine yourself surrounded with women, in a place where you're the only guy that women want. Assuming that women are attracted to you will immediately bust the thought that women don't like you. Visualize the scene inside your head and then work to make that scene come true. Approach a group of girls and start connecting with them. Be bold and tease the girls inside the group.

3: "Limit Her Choices"

Another great way to overcome self confidence issues is to not give the woman in question the power to reject you. Going hand in hand with the first tip, you will find that if you do not come across as overly enthusiastic but just enough to engage in conversation, she will end up getting excited due to the anticipation in the air and you'll probably end up chasing you if you do things the right way.

Finally, use hypnosis, especially when all else has failed. Nonetheless, fractionation as it's known virtually guarantees you to succeed every single time with minimal effort. It is a very powerful technique - as it enables any man to make women fall in love in as little as 15 minutes.

But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning...
Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).

These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.